Huge congratulations to all those newly wedded in California. It’s about time.

My husband and I have been watching carefully for the destruction of our marriage, as balefully predicted by the religious right. So far, everything seems normal.

Notes: Josh and Zach hug before their wedding in New York state last May. By flickr user CarbonNYC, and used with permission. Also sending an extra hooray! to Phyllis and Del. Best wishes to you both.